What to Do When Your Pet Dies
If you're reading this because you just lost your pet, we're so sorry. This guide walks you through what to do in the immediate hours and days ahead — practical steps and emotional support, at your own pace.
Step-by-Step Guide
Take a Moment
There is no rush. If your pet has passed at home, you have time. Sit with them, say goodbye, and let yourself feel whatever comes. There are no wrong emotions right now.
Confirm They Have Passed
Check for breathing by watching the chest for movement. Check for a heartbeat by placing your hand on the left side of their chest. If you are unsure, call your veterinarian.
Handle Their Body with Care
Place your pet on a towel or blanket. The body may release fluids, so place a waterproof layer underneath. If you need to store the body temporarily, a cool room is best. In warm weather, you have 1-2 hours before you need to make arrangements.
Contact Your Veterinarian
Your vet can confirm the passing, provide a death certificate if needed, and often arrange cremation or burial services. Many veterinary clinics have after-hours numbers for emergencies.
Decide: Cremation or Burial?
Cremation is the most common choice, with options ranging from communal ($30-$70) to private ($100-$350+). Home burial is legal in many areas but check local regulations. Some cities have pet cemeteries.
Save Keepsakes
Before cremation or burial, consider saving a lock of fur, making a paw print (using ink or clay), or taking final photos. Many pet owners regret not doing this. Your vet or crematory may offer paw print services.
Notify Others Who Loved Them
Let family members, pet sitters, dog walkers, and close friends know. If your pet was on medication, cancel future prescriptions. Notify your pet insurance provider if applicable.
Take Care of Yourself
Grief after pet loss is real and valid. Give yourself permission to cry, to feel numb, or to feel angry. Take time off work if you need to. Avoid people who minimize your loss.
Consider Other Pets in the Home
Surviving pets may grieve too. Dogs and cats can show signs of loss — changes in appetite, searching behavior, lethargy. Maintain their routine and give them extra attention.
When You're Ready, Honor Their Memory
There is no timeline for this. Some people create a memorial immediately; others need weeks or months. When the time feels right, find a way to celebrate the joy they brought into your life.
Common Questions
What do I do if my pet dies at home in the middle of the night?
There is no emergency. Place your pet on a towel in a cool room. You can wait until morning to contact your vet or a pet cremation service. Most areas have 24-hour pet cremation hotlines if you prefer not to wait.
Can I bury my pet in my backyard?
In many areas, yes — but regulations vary by state and municipality. Generally, the grave should be at least 3-4 feet deep and away from water sources. Check your local laws before proceeding.
Should I let my other pets see the body?
Many veterinarians and animal behaviorists recommend it. Allowing surviving pets to sniff and investigate can help them understand that their companion has died, rather than endlessly searching for them.